Bad Sex

by polymisfit

What do we define as good or bad sex?

I havent laughed so much in so long,I need to ask this though, why is it that women dont tell men when they are horrible in bed? What is it about us wanting to to protect egos thereby cheating ourselves out of good sexual experiences?

I dont know how many time I have heard of horrible sexual experiences where women just leave without saying anything instead of telling brothers to up their game. I mean we are able to compliment men who bring their A game to bed,why are we not doing the same with the slackers? Cause not telling him that he didnt rock your world is the first step to getting people to doing something about their “problems”

There are a lot of factors that could lead to erectile dysfunction, that I get however if and this might be aimed more at men than women, if you cant go further than 5 mins, at whatever age and you dont see a problem, how are we supposed to remember you?

Cause in as much as men talk about how women are in bed, women talk and women are brutal, especially when they are telling their friends what you all get up to…And we laugh,well I laugh really, more like yell laugh and stuff,Im not polite, I have manners worth shit, I really cant stand bad sex. Its a waste of both our time and well if its really horrible it doesnt count, its bad, what do you want me to file it under? A

Yes there are times when sometimes we need to teach each other how to please one another, that is fine, for instance I more often than not introduce my partners to BDSM by mentioning it and getting them reading material and all those things, sometimes it works,well most of the time it works, it still has to not work, I will tell you how that goes and I think we should be having more of these conversations with our lovers… Am I wrong?

And good sex doesnt even have to involve a thousand rounds and acrobatic skills, it could just be in the way you are touched or fingered or fucked, could be in the way you are pampered during sex, it could be that one intense orgasm as opposed to multiple average orgasms, cause we all have different standards right?

I have mentioned before that every person is different and we sometimes take time to learn about what the other person likes,even if its just for a weekend or whatnot,its part of being considerate as lovers, yes you are lovers even if its just for a weekend, Im not saying you prepare for a wedding and have babies but you know what I mean and depending on what happens people might come back for more or not, its their choice completely.

But women need to chill with this politeness thing, if you are going to impress me for all of 45 seconds, we have a problem bruh and Im not gonna lie to you about it, you shall deal with your problems so you dont expose other women to the shame that you bring in 45 seconds. And no it doesnt count as sex if it lasted all of 45 seconds.

As my friend says, this is the reason women kill, 45 seconds of hot air. Meh

And in other news, I finally explained to someone I wanted in my life what polyamory was about, after forwarding them the column, I hope they got it but Im not there anymore, Im somewhere else. Went back to my happy… And Im happy and and and ^_^ this love thing is just wonderful I tell ya **,)

Im still waiting for your submissions on polymisfit@yahoo.com. Please and thank you