Sex Shaming and Policing

by polymisfit

Some things just wont die

I woke up, logged on to twitter and it was on fire, all because a woman threw out a number of 83 men she slept with, now as to why people were touched that she put out this number, I dont know…

The argument was that her body count is too high so people took issue with that, then came the comment that she shouldnt have said anything… I have an issue with both statements…

This is a woman who took a conscious decision to have sex, the number of men she fucked doesnt matter however she DECIDED to have sex and we are judging her..So we want to take away women’s ability and right to make decisions about what they do with their vaginas? OH

Then came up the comment that she shouldnt have said anything cause you know, a future husband might be lurking in the background and if he knows this then she wont get married. So women are defined by marriage then? And should she meet her future husband, if she wants one he is going to be such a weakling he wont be able to handle the thought or knowledge that his dick isnt the first one to feel her walls…. Dont mind that she loves him and is committed to him, dont mind that she might want to make a life with him by choosing him, no we dont count that we want her body count? Oh

Women are not defined by marriage, being unmarried is not a curse, some of the happiest people I know are unmarried and some of the most miserable people are the married ones, those ones that married good girls but they dont even know what their wives’ walls feel like its been that long they been fucked. Get The Entire Fuck Out Of Here

Why are we still doing this to ourselves and other women? I read one of the tweets that said our mothers were not like this, we are the “worse” generation, oh really now, after ya’ll were raised by 10 different uncles? Have a seat with your mother’s “friends”

People need to move past this policing of women’s bodies cause in the same tone that you call a woman a hoe/slut, you are (1) closing down pussy access (2) opening up a possibility of having some of the WORST sex EVER… Look at it this way

Women (some) go out of their way to convince men that they are pure, so when you finally get to the fucking this woman isnt totally there, she doesnt enjoy the experience, she would most probably act shy and clueless so you as an insecure man can feel “manly” about showing her things and whatnot… No darling you are not showing her anything,she is probably smiling and thinking to herself “look at this fool” but we wont go there cause you is smart right? Right

I have expressed my dismay and absolute hatred for dating insecure men and I know that one of the reasons I want to go back to K is because he lets me be myself…. When I was with him I completely let go, to a point of sometimes losing consciousness from orgasms with him… Sex is one of the most intimate things one could ever do with a partner and if Im too busy worrying about how you think I will act when your dick is inside of me, chances are I will not enjoy it and being with you wont even be an option….

It gets tired, its tiring having to defend women all the time, it gets tiring defending women against other women who are dick riding, the ones that point fingers at other women, those “whores” forgetting that in this life, just having a vagina makes you a whore, you dont even have to get fucked, you have a vagina your whore status is already intact…. These men that we go out of our way to “impress” by dropping numbers, they say they dont care but who gives a fuck what they think….

The only time one should worry about what another is doing with their genitalia is when they are together in the same space, other than that, no dear, you really have no patrol and guarding rights over my pussy.

People forget that women used to get married as a survival mechanism, you couldnt work so you had to have a husband who provided,  you couldnt drive or go to school cause there was a man in the wings waiting for you, in 2013 you cannot be saying women NEED to get married, lets be together for companionship, not because you “have” to look after me, cause poor me I dont have an education or a bank account.

Lets be together to laugh, love and live dont worry about nothing else, you dont have to “wife” up anybody you dont want, stop worrying about these body counts unless you are at the scene of the “crime”. Ya’ll stay talking yourself out of pussy all the time, for what? so you can gain followers on twitter by trash talking women? Oh, how’s that dry dick treating you?

And you wanna know why your dick is dry? Cause aint nobody trying to fuck a pathetic, insecure little boy, that is why. Keep judging women who get orgasms on the regular, without you, cause nobody wants to fuck a messed up, insecure, dry dicked little boy like yourself. Now piss off

And to the women who sex shame other women, honey, when you laying in bed cause you aint cumming cause you dont know where you clit is cause you are too pure for that , think of all those women who come every single time a dick is inside of them, you just couldnt be one of them right? You do realise that by being “innocent” you are cheating yourself out of incredible experiences right? Tell me you get it… Cause I have heard of women who only have missionary sex cause anything else makes them feel dirty, well sorry to break it to you but sex is DIRTY, FILTHY DIRTY BEAUTIFUL SEX. The only thing you have to worry about during or after sex is dirty sheets and used condoms, nothing else, why you cheating yourself?

I wish women wouldnt do this to themselves and better yet if you dont like sex fine, you dont like it but dont be so caught up in other people’s pussies, you dont want to use yours, worry about it, let the people who want to fuck do exactly that….

I swear I hate twitter and the small minded fucks it introduces me to sometimes, HATE IT. UGH

And have you stopped to consider that the reason you have so many rules for women about what they do with their vaginas could be that you want a vagina too? You man, you who knows everything, is it mildly possible that you also impose these standards on women cause you dont really like vaginas hence your never ending mission to not get pussy? You could just want dick and you arent sure of how to ask for it, so you lash out at the people who dont have to do much to get fucked….Am I reaching?

Get you some whether or not anybody knows or cares is none of your fucking business. Be loud about it if you want or be quiet however make sure that whatever decision you make, you make because you *want* to not be cause some little dry dicked boy and some dry pussy trick have decided to impose these rules on your and your body. Cause you know what the interesting or sad thing about this is, most of the things we do or dont do are influenced by what we think people will say about us, news flash people STAY talking, its human nature so does this mean you are not going to live your live just because you are afraid of what people say or dont say, what they think or dont think, really? That is what you are going to spend your life worrying about? Oh (._.)

By letting people DICKTATE to you what you should do with your life you are basically saying you dont have a mind of your own and you need these unnecessary people to tell you how to live your life…. Tell me how that is working for you, make sure you check up on them as much as they checking you and make sure they live up to the standards and rules they imposed on you, its only fair right? Right

I hope I never have to discuss sex shaming and policing ever again, cause repeating the same thing means one of two things, its either you are not interested in what I have to say or you are not hearing me, you tell me what is up with that.

Dont give irrelevant people the freedom to abuse your freedom, so unnecessary

Back to pleasantries, life is REALLY looking up, unbelievably so… its so good I cant believe Im living this shit now \O/

And my email is still open for submissions about your orgasmic lives ^_^ polymisfit@yahoo.com